Sermon Study Notes for Further Study & Reflection
KEY VERSE(S):
*For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh. This is a profound mystery—but I am talking about Christ and the church. However, each one of you also must love his wife as he loves himself, and the wife must respect her husband. – Ephesians 5:31-33
INTRODUCTION
How Did It Get to This
Contractual or Covenantal
CONTRACT BETWEEN US
About “Us to be Happy”
Mutual Benefit to Comply Under
More Feeling Based
COVENANT UNDER GOD
About “God with Us for His Glory”
Desire to Benefit My Spouse
More Attitude Based
COMMITTED TO BUILD “US” IN CHRIST
Grow Together in Grace
Lead and Let Your Heart Follow
Turn Towards - Keep Communicating
CONFESS TO REPAIR & RENEW COVENANT
Own Your Actions, Behaviors, Responsibilities
Forgive Each Other’s Failures
Rely on God’s Divine Presence & Power
CHURCH IS THE BRIDE OF CHRIST
Christ Paid with His Own Blood, New Covenant
Christians are Preparing for the Wedding Banquet (Rev. 19:9)
GOING DEEPER GROWING STRONGER
Renewing My Mind
a. How does the Christian purpose of marriage differ from other marital purposes?
b. Why does a Christian marriage need to live beyond “happily ever after?”
c. What are some biblical examples of God’s covenant-love between Himself and others?
d. Why do you think God uses marital terms between Christ (Groom) and His Church (Bride)?
e. What did Jesus give us as a spiritual endowment as we prepare for our Groom’s return?
Reflecting in My Heart
a. What stood out to you from today's message?
b. Do you remember the motivation behind why you entered into marriage? How did this message provide a new perspective to the purpose behind your marriage under God?
c. How do you and your spouse handle failures and unmet expectations?
d. Do you primarily let your heart (emotions) lead you or attitude (mind/choice)?
e. Ask God to speak to you as you review and reflect upon the Key Verse(s).
Responding in My Faith
a. When you don’t feel in love, what steps will you take to keep committed?
b. Is there any area you need to confess before God and your spouse to bring forgiveness, healing, and renewal? Keep in prayer and seek for godly wisdom. You may need to seek counsel (pastor, elder, friend, etc.) to help guide you through this.
c. What will you commit to that helps build and strengthen your marriage in Christ? Please feel free to take the marriage devotion available in the foyer.
Blessings,
Pastor Trevor